I've been yelled at for neglecting my pregnancy on my blog.
It's true. I'm pregnant.
Yep, I'm pregnant.
You see, although we are very happy...this is a
VERY big shock to us. In March of 2002, we made our first visit to the fertility clinic. We were very young. Although I kind of felt we had a problem...we really did not expect to
really have a problem. Well, as luck would have it - we did. It would be very difficult for us to conceive.
We went home and thought about it for awhile. Months later, we decided we better get a head start as this could be a
lengthy ride. The younger the better with fertility. So - on the fertility roller coaster we went.
Lots of
testing and
needles and
medicines and
doctor visits and
pregnancy tests and
hospital visits and
crying and even
laughing followed for the next many, many months. Finally, we were blessed with
Brady. We were still young. We lucked out - all the science technology worked. Every single moment of my pregnancy was
SUPER EXCITING and new and
everything we had waited for.
2 years later, it was time to give it another shot. We wanted another baby. Unlike most other people, when we decide to give conception a shot - we must make a doctor's appointment to
schedule the conception. Kind of
funny...kind of
not. We like to make jokes about it - I think it makes it easier. When you go for baby number 2, you start all over. Lots of
testing and
needles and
medicines and
doctor visits and
pregnancy tests followed. This time, the doctor was a bit concerned. He suggested we move on to
IVF. You see...apparently this was my best chance at having a baby. My body did not respond very well to the meds...and when they increased them just a bit - my ovaries went crazy and produced pretty much a
bazillion eggs.
Think Octomom times 5. So
NOT happening.
Every cycle during those months was halted due to over stimulation. The doctors did not want to take any high order multiple chances...THANK GOODNESS!!! Neither did we. So, off to IVF we went. Many, many more
tests,
LOTS more
needles and
medicines, and a long
hospital stay happened next. But, good news - 2 months later...we were expecting. Yep,
Lily was born almost 3 years after Brady.
After Lil...we never said we were
done. I think it seemed to final. Bryan was good with 2. I was good with 2...but, I really had wanted more. Then, Lil started getting older and becoming easier. We were getting more and more
settled into having 2 cuties. I guess we still never completely ruled out another - but, certainly had not made any appointments for conception.
Going through fertility treatments, you often hear about people that had trouble having children and then all of a sudden...they got pregnant. People would tell us that they know someone that did IVF and then got pregnant a few months later on their own...or that they knew someone that adopted and then got pregnant right when the adoption was final. We would
kind of dream about something like that happening. But, knowing our issues - we
never really imagined it could
actually happen. So...in September of 2009, when I randomly took that pregnancy test and saw "pregnant" pop up immediately...I was literally in
shock.
Shock.
Shock.
I felt like a 16 year old girl telling her parents that she was pregnant. Bryan was stunned. We seriously had no idea how this happened. Well...I guess we knew - but, could not
believe it. We weren't trying. Not at all. I took about 6 more tests that all read pregnant and made an appointment for the next day to confirm. The doctor, too, confirmed the inevitable. I was pregnant.
Miraculously, I was pregnant.
We kept it a secret. Well...for a couple days. We then spread the word to our very close family. We were still in shock. For the next couple weeks and months, at every doctor appointment, I would continue to be shocked that I was
still pregnant. I guess I was in
denial.
Does that sound
bad? For years, we had dreamed with almost no hopes that such a thing would happen...and it actually did. We
should have been jumping up and down and screaming out loud to the world. But, we
weren't.
Were we happy?
Yes.
Were we shocked?
Definitely.
Were we scared?
Yes.
An unplanned pregnancy? Very strange in our books. This kind of thing was
so far from our normal that we did not know how to react.
The word is now officially out to everyone. We are beginning to make some preparations for what is needed. We have told the cuties and they are
so excited that it makes my anxieties fade a little. The baby girl is
very active. I can now feel her regularly and with each movement, it makes me
more and
more excited. I do feel guilty that it has taken so many weeks for me to begin to feel such excitement. Yes, we were excited from the start...but, nerves and shock and fear seemed to
overpower the excitement.
So, I now vow to get on the
pregnancy happy train. Put my fears behind me. Have
faith that it will all work out. And prepare to bring this little girl into a very excited and loving house. She has a big brother that already tells her good night and blows her kisses and a big sister that insists her name will be Ella.
I always wanted Lily to have a sister...
I got my wish.
Here we are - me and baby girl Campbell. We're not sure on the name. It is different depending on which one of us you ask. Yep, I certainly look pregnant.
p.s. sorry about the longest post ever. i guess i had a lot to say....
